InCircle Testimonials
What your fellow warriors are saying:
Having Abbe at your side throughout the IVF process is like having a mom without the drama, a sister without the competition, a rabbi without the religion, a cheerleader without the pom-poms, a best friend who lets you be very one-sided, a therapist who speciality happens to 100% directly overlap with what you are going through.
The entire fertility journey is so fraught and the clinics can have such hustle-bustle that leave you feeling rushed out the door with so many unanswered questions. I don't know how I would have gotten through it all without Abbe. She holds your hand every step of the way. She helped me find providers of various modalities. She helped me advocate for myself. She is so knowledgable about clinics, doctors, procedures, medications, and All.The.Feelings. I felt like, no matter what anxiety I threw at her, she knew where I was coming from. No concern felt too small or too silly and nothing went unanswered, even if, the only answer was: I know this sucks. I'm sorry.
She wakes up early and returns texts and emails promptly. It was such a gift to have someone who's truly been through it and can meet you where you're at. She is truly an expert in her field with a PhD in empathy and a big giant heart. She doesn't take the struggle away, no one can, but she helps you frame it, helps you find the best road for success, and offers unending guidance and support. In an area that can be so private, she offers a lifeline to open up and be real. Her services are a gift and a godsend.
Sarah, Los Angeles
Abbe and In Circle Fertility was the best investment I could have possibly made in securing a loving and tension-free relationship with my daughter concerning her IVF treatment and choices. My daughter was given a compassionate, loving, and knowledgeable hand to hold during this difficult and trying process--it totally lessened, if not eliminated her anxiety and supported our own mother/daughter relationship. Abbe was considerate of our finances and worked with us to secure her services. She was more than an advisor to me, she was a friend-- and my daughter felt the same. I grew to love Abbe for her compassion, knowledge, and sweet professionalism. I know that, if necessary, both my daughter and I can turn to her at any time down the road. Through Abbe, I was able to respect my daughter's privacy and at the same time give her exactly what she needed. Abbe is a gift from fertility heaven, and the good news is, my daughter is now nearing three months pregnant! As a perk, after 6 years of living with her beloved partner, they just married. Cyber hugs all the way around!!
Carol, Los Angeles (mother of client in NYC)
Your help was a life saver! I instantly felt I had so much more support and knowledge at my fingertips. You know exactly what your clients are going through and how to offer exactly the kind of assistance they need. Thank you!
Elizabeth, Atlanta
I am in the medical field and have a pretty good grasp on what is going on in my body and mind during IVF, however, regardless of my understanding, I felt confused and often hopeless, questioning my own gut instincts and next steps. Having InCircle to speak to helped me navigate my emotions and feel less hopeless. I consider them an integral part of navigating the hardest experience of my life.
Brigitte, New York
Working with InCircle Fertility was the best investment I've made throughout my three year infertility journey. Abbe was so kind, compassionate, and funny! She listened to my concerns, celebrated my wins, and walked alongside me throughout such a complicated and challenging process. It takes a village and I felt like Abbe was as essential as a doctor, nutritionist, acupuncturist, therapist, etc. She helped me advocate for myself, get answers that I was seeking, better understand my protocols. She was always there to answer questions or commiserate in ways that my friends and family who have never gone through this will never understand. I will be forever grateful to have found InCircle Fertility.
April, Denver
I wish I had found InCircle sooner. Working with Abbe was amazing. I felt supported and understood which is rare when dealing with IVF. It is so isolating and there are so many choices and unknowns. Abbe helped me understand my options, coach and empower me to make decisions. They were friends to laugh with and shoulders to cry on on the worst days. HIGHLY recommend InCircle!! ❤️
Ashleigh, Boston
When I was 16 I was diagnosed with Endometriosis, and from that moment I always knew that I would struggle with infertility. It wasn’t until we started the process with a fertility doctor that we discovered my husband also suffered from male factor infertility. Once things got underway I felt so alone and thankfully I began working with Abbe. Abbe gave me the support and courage to get through my first cycle and first embryo transfer. Without her love and support I’m not sure I would have made it. Then again, about 18 months later, we decided to embark on a second round of IVF in hopes of being able to have a second baby. I went through this cycle in silence because I was sure it was going to work out like it had the first time, but I was wrong. It was then that I realized I am not alone, and reached out to Abbe again. She was able to give me the support I needed in order to move forward from my miscarriage. I am forever grateful for Abbe and all she has done for me. Without a doubt I would recommend anyone struggling in this space to reach out to Abbe because she seriously is like no other. Anyone who has the chance to have Abbe in their corner during this process will be the luckiest. Abbe: the words ‘thank you’ don’t even begin to describe how thankful I truly am for you.
Aviva, Toronto, ON
There are no words to properly thank Abbe and all the supports she’s given to me over the last eight months. She’s been an emotional support angel that I never even knew I needed. From remembering and checking in after every single appointment, to being my voice of reason when I felt depleted and when I questioned my every move. All this, amidst one of the most challenging years: 2020. Our whole family (and our future babies that are due to arrive this summer) have Abbe to thank for the time, patience, knowledge, and friendship that she gave to a complete stranger, Me!
Anonymous, New York City
Having someone who is both knowledgeable in fertility (or IVF) and empathic is the biggest resource one could have during this process. It is absolutely fundamental to anybody going through this traumatic experience to have a resource that is disconnected from your personal life; an impartial and resolute sounding board. Abbe was able to explain and breakdown the entire process in a truly meaningful way, and was invaluable in helping us navigate through this trying time. Working with Abbe was a game changer from day one and can't even believe what it would have been like if I had found her earlier.
Lauren, Los Angeles
The infertility journey is incredibly lonely and challenging. I felt isolated and couldn't seek the support of my friends or family, as they had no idea what I was going through and weren't in the position to provide the support I needed. Having Abbe's support was critical in helping me navigate the most challenging journey of my life.
Anonymous, Los Angeles
InCircle has been an invaluable resource on this crazy IVF journey. Being fairly new to the world of infertility, I wasn't sure how much support I would need early on, but I know now that having her in my corner is one of the main reasons I've been able to stay sane and emotionally well through it all. She see me, she gets it, she has incredible insight and never makes me feel like I need to be anywhere other than where I am.
Family and friends can be supportive but we all need someone by our side who has truly been there, who speaks the language of shots and meds and who never says, "just relax, it'll happen when you go on vacation." Ugh. Abbe is the first text I send when I get any kind of news and I know I can count on her to be there, oftentimes with a solid piece of advice or question for my doc I would not have thought to ask. I hope that anyone else going through infertility finds the courage to ask for help. I promise, it's worth it.
GB, Santa Barbara
Abbe has a wealth of knowledge and an answer for every question since she has endured many challenges along her own fertility journey. It is both refreshing and comforting to talk to someone who understands the physical and emotional tolls presented by what can sometimes be a devastating reality. I would undoubtedly recommend Abbe to anyone seeking fertility-related guidance and support. Her commitment and motivation to help other women is undeniable!
Charissa, Los Angeles
Connecting with Abbe was a major turning point in my fertility journey. First, she referred me to the doctor that ultimately led me to a successful outcome and for that I can never repay her. But just as importantly, her help and support through the process was truly indispensable. I have never felt so immediately understood by someone with regards to fertility stuff. She really, truly gets it and not having to censor myself with her or feel any sort of self-consciousness or fear of judgment made me want to tell her absolutely everything. I valued and constantly sought out her advice, feedback and empathy. If you are hesitating hiring her for even one second, DON’T. Working with her will make the tortuous process of going through infertility feel so much more manageable and having her by your side is the ultimate comfort. Frankly, if it weren't for Abbe, I would probably still be going through countless IVF cycles, instead of having achieved my dreams. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Abbe.
Anonymous, Los Angeles
InCircle was truly a Godsend! I really wish I would have had the courage sooner to reach out for help earlier on during my IVF journey, I really think it would have made this process a lot easier, emotionally. It made a big difference that at the start of our work together , Abbe found out EVERYTHING about my infertility journey, struggles, and treatment up to that point. She checked in with me regularly, she remembered all of my appointments, procedures, follow ups, etc. I think even better than myself at times. What was most helpful was the emotional support she provided with every step of my journey. She provided me with very useful knowledge and information regarding certain processes of treatment which I greatly appreciated. I cannot thank her enough for her care, concern, and metaphorical hand holding through this roller coaster called IVF. I am forever grateful!
Mayra, Los Angeles
Fertility is one of the tougher subjects to discuss, even with loved ones. After listening to Abbe's podcast, Maculate Conception, I was so impressed by her drive, fortitude and knowledge that I reached out to coach with her. She immediately made me feel understood and supported. She has a level head and comprehends the process from the inside out, and the best part - she truly cares about your outcome.
Danielle, Juneau, AK